The Joys of Marriage

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The Joys of Marriage: Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own

understanding, with our eyes closed, we can choose our dress through texture but it isn’t the

same in marital life every relationship needs God, any relationship you start and you want it to

end in marriage, needs to be well built with the word of God. Many believe that marriage is

about who they love the most but isn’t like that because

who you love the most may not love you

the same, love from within is very important. God said in Genesis 2:18:Then the Lord said, “It

is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him(KJV).

the motive of some people when they see a possible partner is to flirt around with the person so

they start a friendship, God does not support that type of the relationship because through

friendship they will start doing things that offend God they will start having affairs with each

other with isn’t pleasant in the presence of God and God said it isn’t good for a man to touch a

woman without marriage. The bible says in Hebrews 13:4: Marriage is honourable in all, and

the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge {KJV}. We have the right to

choose our choice but we need to pray that our choice chooses us, many have gotten married

through the first expression of their partner. a solid relationship isn’t based on appearance

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explanation giving: we shouldn’t jump into conclusion through the facial appearance of a

person, just because the person is cool, quiet, handsome, wealthy, beautiful, What’s important is

that the love from both sides should be equal and it shouldn’t be because of material things. The Joys of Marriage

Let Me Tell You A Real Life Story

There’s a couple, when they are about to get married the wife was tall and slim while the man is

average in height, after marriage and three kids she suddenly became fat before she gave birth

to the third child her husband realised that she’s becoming fat. Suddenly, the man decided to

end their marriage after having three kids because when he married her she was tall, slim and

beautiful but now she’s getting bigger. Both families strived to settle the matter because of the

kids they have but they still got separated after some time he went to remarry and he took with

him a child and left the other two children with his wife.

That’s the reason we should marry because of our appearance. when a relationship is based

on material things it doesn’t last and when a marriage fails it normally affects the children a lot,

because it isn’t in the will of God for a broken marriage to occur, that’s why he said, one wife and

one husband. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 7: 1-2: Now concerning the things whereof ye

wrote unto me: [It is] good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, [to avoid]

fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman

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have her own husband (KJV). The Joys of Marriage

Jesus said in Matthew 5:27-28 ye have heard that it was said by them of old time,

Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman

to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart(KJV).

Let Me Tell You Another Real Life Story

There’s a couple that has been married for a long time and everything has been going well for

them but the husband was financially wrecked and his wife started misbehaving, and that’s how

she married another wealthy man without looking back, she said it was because when she

married him he was very wealthy and now he is poor and she couldn’t cope with living a

financially wrecked life so she left leaving five children behind. As I said earlier, when a

relationship is based on material things it doesn’t last, now, we aren’t following the word of God

and that’s the reason behind broken marriages

Jesus said in Matthew 19:4-5: And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read,

that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, And said,

For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife:

and they twain shall be one flesh?Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.

What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (KJV). The Joys of Marriage

anyone that wants to turn a relationship into marriage has to avoid doing what God said we

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shouldn’t do, only God can lead us to the right partner. if a relationship and its love is authentic .

and from God, it will be patient and compassionate, love doesn’t need discontent or bragging, it

isn’t pompous or blunt, It does not insist on its own way, it isn’t bad-tempered or dissatisfied,

it rejoices with the truth and not in wrongdoing and the relationship and love will bear all things,

believe all things, hope all things, and endure all things. Don’t rush into a relationship because it

isn’t a foil that is used to wrap shawarma that once you eat what’s inside you thrash it, it’s a

lifetime commitment. The power to do God’s will in any relationship shall fall on you in Jesus

mighty name Amen.


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