God leading you to the right person, the most important part of every relationship
is for the relationship to have trust and also to have the fear of God
because any relationship that isn’t built with trust that relationship will crash at an early stage.
Marital relationship is a lifetime relationship you don’t just rush into it and you shouldn’t marry someone
because of the person appearance, position, possessions and material things because the day that those things
which are the reason you got married aren’t there anymore the love will also fade away.
When you’re into a relationship it should be based by genuine love, when i said you shouldn’t
love someone by his/her appearance it means a lot because many has crashed for the reason of
that. Some after a child or two, while some after marriage what they saw in the person before
marriage when there aren’t seeing it again and if the marriage don’t break up, it’s will cause extra
marital affairs because of this fact you don’t need to marry someone because of his or her
appearance, position and wealth, God leading you to the right person.
Let me tell you a real life story
There is a man that was married to a beautiful lady, after their marriage the lady used to take
care of her hair, she always fix her hair in different styles but her husband has never seen her
real hair before and he loves her a lot. One day her husband traveled so she called her hair stylist
to come and make her hair but her husband came home earlier than expected that is how he
saw his wife real hair, he was so shocked and disappointed, he was confused if she was the wife
or not immediately he said this is impossible for him to marry someone
like her because of her bar hair, he included all his family and they ended up divorced. It’s
because of the physical appearance he married her and not who she really is, should it be like
that? No it’s shouldn’t, it isn’t good in the sight of the Lord marry someone because of
appearance and material things, look at what happened in the story,
if God was in that relationship should it have ended just like that because his wife had a bar hair?
Yes you might end up with the one you love through appearance but the inner person may be bad,
that’s why you need God leading you to the right person. If you’re in a store you can pick and buy anything
that you want but in marital life you need to be leaded by God
or not immediately he said this is impossible for him to marry someone
to have the right partner because it’s has to do with our fulfillment of destiny, if you bring a
colorful destiny and star in life you also need a good partner in order to fulfill your destiny.
Psychologically once a man and woman are married as they keep on living together they will be
looking alike, in maths one plus one is two but in marital life
one plus one is one, one flesh and one blood, it’s very important that in any relationship
there must be God, honesty, genuine love and endurance. The Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love suffers
long and is kind; love does not envy; love not parade itself,
is not puffed up;do not behave rudely,
does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things (NKJV). God leading you to the right person.
he who use dance to marry a woman will lose her by staring. The lips of an adulterous woman drip honey and her speech
is smoother than oil but in the end she’s bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword in Proverbs 5:3-4 (KJV).
Flee from the relationship that God didn’t lead you too, because
you might end up marrying your enemy as your spouse or suitor,
how can we explain a man that molest his wife by beating and abusing her. The Bible says in 1 Peter 3:7
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel,
and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered (KJV).
God leading you to the right person: As I said earlier marriage isn’t something to just rush into, any relationship that will bring joy God needs to be the foundation,
you should pray and put your relationship into God hands if likely fast put it in prayer so that you won’t choose the wrong partner.
Jesus said in Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife,
except it be for fornication, and shall marry another,
committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery (KJV).
That why it’s important for God to lead you to the right partner, a right partner can’t be chosen through appearance,
back in those days, you’ll see marriages last for long, you’ll see an anniversary of 30, 40 years and above, but now you’ll see a newly
wedded couple that should be enjoying matrimonial life together,
Instead of that, they will be divorced. All these are because they haven’t been led by God, marriage isn’t a child’s play, it’s a union that
ought to last forever, but nowadays people believe that once they start the relationship of boy and girlfriend they can be a couple
without God leading them to their right partner, majority belive that they can choose a partner by themself without God leading them,
due to the socialize generation we are now, some might not even know each other just after a dinner night
they’ll decide that they are compatible for each other, as I said earlier, marriage isn’t s child’s play,
the one who you want to spend the rest of your life with, isn’t someone you can just choose over a dinner or coffee night, especially not social media.
When God leads, this isn’t needed
Men, God said you shouldn’t divorce your wife, likewise women, you shouldn’t divorce your husband and inorder to prevent this,
you need God to lead you to your right partner. The bible says in 1 Corinthians 7:Now concerning the things whereof
ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife,
and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again,
that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men
were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore
to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry:
for it is better to marry than to burn. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean;
but now are they holy. But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases:
but God hath called us to peace. For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou,
O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk.
And so ordain I in all churches. Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision?
let him not be circumcised. Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free,
use it rather. For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord’s freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ’s servant.
Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.
Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be. Art thou bound unto a wife?
seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry,
she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth,
that both they that have wives be as though they had none; And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice,
as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not; And they that use this world, as not abusing it:
for the fashion of this world passeth away. But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord,
how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy
both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. And this I speak for your own profit;
not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require,
let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity,
but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her
in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better. The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead,
she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God (KJV).
God leading you to the right person: hear what the bible says, my opinion is for God to lead you to the right person
because the children suffers if the parent separate, so you should let God lead you to your right partner.
I pray into your life these prayers.
1. The spirit of patience will reign in your life until your right partner comes in the name of Jesus.
2. Evil program for your marital destiny will be deprogrammed in Jesus mighty name.
3. Every enemy of your marriage shall be wasted in Jesus mighty name.
4. Powers that say your marital joy will not manifest, shall be destroyed in the name of Jesus.
5. God will use your guardian angel to guide you to make a right choice in Jesus mighty name Amen.