Behind Every Perfect Marriage There Must be God

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Behind every perfect marriage, there must be God, it’s possible to have a perfect marriage from the beginning of the marriage to the end

because with God everything is possible, it is very rare to have a perfect marriage without

God to back the marriage up. What is marriage? Jesus said in Matthew 19:4-6:

And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them

at the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man

leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and they twain shall be one flesh?

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together,

let not man put asunder (KJV). For man and woman to leave their family to become one,

there have different characters, different background, and they bring them up differently,

it is only God that can make the marriage perfect, now are days that people get married

without God approval it all these types of things led to divorce because any relationship

that God did not approve, the foundation can never be solid, may people get married through

social media, there is nothing bad with that but no matter how beautiful or handsome the person is,

you need to make sure that God approves the marriage,

how will you know if God approves the marriage? By putting the marriage in prayer

before making any step, God is a merciful God, in any area we want God to speak to us

God never deny us, and he will show us if he or she is the right person for us, many mistakes

we make in marriage is because we choose for ourselves, we don’t put it in prayer

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and we don’t allow God to decide for us, always having a lack of patience to do what we

want and not following God will for us, as I said earlier we are all brought up in

different ways and we want to join to be one,

definitely, we need a solid foundation for any kind of marriage,

Let me tell you a short story

A man let his bride on the wedding altar because the bride wasted a lot of time on make-up, the man called her so many times

but she kept on saying that she want to be so beautiful for him because the day is their day,

and the man keep on calling her but she kept on saying the same thing, the bride and

groom family went to meet her to come that she has wasted a lot of time already but

she keep on saying that the day is her day, and she wants to look so beautiful for her groom,

the groom got so tired of waiting for her that he said doesn’t want to get married to her anymore,

all the groom and bride family started begging, the groom not to quit the marriage and the bride as

already come the he shouldn’t cancel the wedding, they all beg and begged him but he didn’t

accept to marry her. If God approved the marriage there is nothing the bride will do,

she can stay as long as she wants the groom will always be patient with her because marriage

itself need endurance, so why won’t the groom endure for the bride

to just put on some make-up, it is because the foundation of the relationship

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is not strong God didn’t grant his approval to the marriage because God never start things

without ending, many relationships that end of minor things, some will say because wife

can’t cook they will start having extra-marital affair and before you know it the marriage

will be broken, it takes God for a woman and man with different background,

characters and have different ways that they brought them up to live together and

also be perfect, as a man immediately they hand over to you another man’s daughter

she has become your responsibility from that day on, the way she lives, what she eats,

how she dresses, they are all your responsibility, you as a woman that wants to leave

your family and go to your in-laws submit your self to them and accept anything

that your husband gives you both little and big as God will, the word of God said

in Hebrew 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled:

but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge (KJV). Do you see the reason?

why we need God before any relationship because we will use the fear of God

to handle each experience and challenges that we may come across in marriage,

it is very easy for a husband that doesn’t fear the Lord to do all such of things to his wife

he can beat her, deny her, and he can even go and have extramarital affairs

because he doesn’t know or have the fear of God, the same goes for the wife,

if she also doesn’t have God in her, she can do a different kind of things,

like having extramarital affairs and dressing ungodly, the Bible says in

Ephesians 5:33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love

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his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband (KJV).

and in Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers and a

prudent wife is from the LORD (KJV). You as a wife be humble to your husband,

live a God-fearing life with each other and be faithful with each other and

from that you will be able to raise up God-fearing children, the Bible says in

Ephesians 5:25-26 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church,

and gave himself for it, that he might sanctify

and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word (KJV).

Husband submit yourself to your wife and wife submit yourself to your husband

but the most important thing as husband and wife you must have God and fear him a lot remember Behind Every Perfect Marriage There Must be God.

Jesus said in Matthew 7:24-27 Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine,

and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:

And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat

upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock,And every one

that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a

foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:And the rain descended,

and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it

fell: and great was the fall of it (KJV). Love God and live a God-fearing life

in your marital life and the grace to do so shall fall on you in Jesus name Amen


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